I am a normal boy working in financial IT. Still looking for my targets and goals. In a stable and lovely relationship with my bobo. Like playing sports, football, snooker, badminton in particular. I like music a lot as well. Dream Theatre is my favourite band. This blog is intended to share my thoughts and wills with my friends and family. Please feel free to leave comments.

Saturday, May 06, 2006

News of the day + 成長之Pre-大學篇

News of the day: Here
Can't believe I had never heard about this, and missed it.

成長之Pre-大學篇

九年前我是一個白痴,很慶幸我現在不是。

當初決定赴英,一半出於逃避,另一半想找一個轉變,這決定對我成長的影響是當時意料之外的。

剛到?時,因中三有外籍?師授課,對自己的英語會話能力充滿信心。結果發現,根本不是那麼一回事,除了聽得懂一小部分外,會說的只有"Yes"、"No"、"Thank you"、"Sorry",和需要如?時問的問題。

在英第一年,住的是寄宿學校裡的"Dormitory"(Yahoo! 字典譯作"團體寢室"),大房子裡二十多間小睡房只用矮木板隔開,高個子可以輕易看到隔鄰的傢伙在幹甚?。睡房沒有門,只有類似窗簾的東西保障有限的私隱。就在這樣的環境下,我開始學習怎樣和不同性格、國籍、年齡、文化、背境的人相處,學習韜晦、忍讓、結他、和怎樣才不會被打。

兩年後結識了寶寶,才知道我在別人眼中很惡、不討好。她讓我學會了怎樣去愛人和被愛,亦令我看清楚了自己。

A-Level 的兩年亦是我開始尋找目標的時期,開始為考入著名大學而努力,給混混愕愕的少年時代劃上句號。

4 Comments:

Blogger jo C said...

what is 韜晦...?

I CANT BELIEVE I MISSED THE MECHANICAL ELEPHANT TOO!!!!!!!!!!! @#$#@^^&# :(

9:25 AM

 
Blogger jo C said...

u can try this http://www.icespace.net/
for sth exciting!

9:47 AM

 
Blogger jo C said...

btw, added a link to ur blog to ma site, hope u dun mind :)

10:48 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

very true that boys have learn how to survive in the 'bully' environment in boarding school

10:10 PM

 

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